My friend just told me that friends would only be there for certain limit of time, so that was the essential reason to have a bf or husband to fill up the time which friends couldn't fill up. So I said "does that mean those without bf/husband/gf/wife ought to face all problems alone?", my friend replied "ya".

Hmm, so too bad for me since I don't have bf/husband, so my pain can only be absorbed by myself, so even if I'm in desperate situation and want to share my problem, hoping to get more attention, I can only say this to myself, "Sorry Eny, you don't have bf/husband, so no choice, you've to face alone hor, because if you expect too much from friends, they will be driven away by you".

So the more I shouldn't believe in this line "I'll Always be there for you should you in need", if a friend ever tell me this line again, I will reply:
"thank you for the try, but save it, because you're not my husband/bf, so I know you can never make it".

Weird enough, though I don't believe anymore if friend ever tell me that sentence, but that sentence still works on me, because when I really say that, I really mean it, and I'll surely do it. I don't need to be that person's bf/husband/gf/wife, but if I ever say that to someone, that will mean that person is super important to me, and I'll surely preach what I say, so not anyone can get this sentence from me. I seriously don't think only intimate relationships can allow 2 people to care so so so much for each other. So my friends, sorry for sharing different opinions. But like I said, thank you for telling me the truth, letting me realise a friend is just a friend and only a friend, especially at my very down moment, your words made me learnt even more. Perhaps it is good to learn harsh lesson at difficult time, absorbed in more painful manner, thus, remember it more clearly for life.

There again, not that I'll do it, others will do the same too.